Going out on your first date with a guy can prove both exciting and a little nerve-wracking.
That being the case is there anything in particular you look for in meeting a guy for the first time on a date?
It may be a nice personality. It could also be someone with manners. You may also be searching for a certain look. At the end of the day, it may be all those and more rolled into one.
So, as you go about preparing for your next first date, what will be most important to you?
Looks Do Matter at the End of the Day
Although many people may say looks are not all that important when going out on a date, chances are they are lying.
It would be hard to think of spending a future with someone if you are not physically attracted to them. That said there may be some things they can do with their looks to improve upon them.
For instance, does the guy you are going to meet on your first date have facial hair?
While some women are quite attracted to guys with facial hair, other women prefer not to see it.
If the guy you are meeting up with does have facial hair, do you like how it looks in any pictures he sent you? If not, he may need to work on it to some degree.
One option for him would be to find better shaving accessories.
So, a start online looking at Harry’s shave club and any other brands of interest would be a smart move. By having the best shaving tools, he can come up with better looking facial hair time and time again.
Speaking of looks, you also want someone who will put some effort into dressing up.
No, your first date does not need a tuxedo when meeting you initially. That said looking like he only recently rolled out of bed is not the right look. The hope is he puts some time and effort into getting dressed before he meets you in person for the first time.
Make Sure He Treats You Nicely
Yes, looks do matter to many women and men when meeting for the first time.
That said you also want someone who will treat you nicely at the end of the day.
Among the things to look for:
- Being open minded
- Being a good listener
If your date fails on some or all those traits, you may begin to have second thoughts about wanting a second date.
Last, always make sure safety is a prime focus for you.
You should never go meet someone for a first date at their home or another locale where you may not be safe. A meeting in public with a lot of people around is always the right move. You can still find a quiet place and yet feel safe knowing others are around.
After some dates with this man, you may get to the point where you will be calling him a boyfriend.
Given you want your boyfriend to look good and treat you well; are you ready to go in search of them?